Couples Therapy
“You’ve lost that loving feeling.”
This song by the Righteous Brothers pretty much sums up your marriage.
Many couples feel their marriage isn’t what they hoped it would be or has lost the initial magic that once held it together.
Conversations have become difficult, if not impossible; and understanding each other feels like trying to speak a foreign language.
Intimacy has become infrequent – and often difficult.
Every little comment is taken wrong and causes an overreaction. You have become so sensitive that it is easier not to talk at all.
Everyone in the family is becoming impacted by your inability to recover the way you used to feel about each other. So frustrating!
Time to reboot your relationship!
When conversations of separation and divorce come into the picture, you may be past reconciliation.
Rather than getting to that point, it is better to get outside guidance to address issues that are keeping you apart.
Family and friends are not the best solution, because they may pick one side over the other or even downplay the issues that are keeping you apart. “This is normal at your stage in marriage” is not what you want to hear.
This is where Couples Therapy can help.
Couples Therapy will bring you to the heart of the challenges getting in the way of having a fulfilled, joyful, and safe relationship with one another so that you can feel a deeper and more intimate connection than you have ever had.
Non-judgmental guidance smooths the way.
As someone trained in couples therapy, I can offer objective guidance as both of you navigate past and present circumstances and journey to a better place.
It starts with learning to communicate in a way where both points of view are appreciated. More than likely, there will be some yelling and accusations. This is part of the process of learning how to effectively communicate.
My role, as your therapist, will be to hold both sides accountable. We listen to both sides, and we employ tools that help address grievances and find ways to appreciate each other’s contribution to the relationship. Some changes may need to be made, but they will be made as a team.
The end game is renewal of your relationship, one that is even better than the one you had at the beginning.
So, let’s find that loving feeling.
As your therapist, I can offer you a safe place where the two of you can explore the good, bad, and ugly, as you pursue transformation of your relationship.
Don’t wait until it is too late. Relationships can be improved, and open communication and love are possible again.
I can absolutely help!
Please call me at (801) 597-7673 or complete the contact form below.